Guest etiquette
A practical etiquette guide for guests at Pakistani weddings: what to wear to each function, gift and salami norms, and RSVP timing.
Mehndi calls for bright colours and festive wear; nikkah tends to be more modest and formal; baraat and walima usually expect richer formal wear, often with a colour the family has asked guests to avoid (commonly white or the bride's own outfit colour). When in doubt, ask the hosts directly rather than guessing from the invite alone.
Cash gifts (salami), envelopes at the nikkah, or registry-style gifts are all common in Pakistan, and the expected amount or format varies widely by family and region. If the invite or a close relative hasn't given guidance, a modest cash gift in an envelope is a safe default.
Catering and seating are usually finalised based on RSVP counts, so replying promptly (and updating the host if your plans change) genuinely affects the family's budget and planning. If you're the one hosting and collecting RSVPs, Jashn's wedding website tools let guests RSVP online in one place instead of chasing replies over WhatsApp.